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Our AI boyfriend generator lets you design his look, personality, voice, and relationship from scratch. He remembers you across every chat. Start free, no credit card.
Any orientation, realistic or anime male characters, straight or gay relationship types. A new account gets 55 dreamcoins to create up to 10 characters.
70M+ dreamers · 11M+ characters created · 42 personality traits · 135 occupations
You build your AI boyfriend on ourdream.ai in three steps: design his look, give him a personality, and define your relationship. The flow mirrors the live character creator, so what you build here is exactly what you chat with afterward. Most platforms hand you a dropdown and a couple of sliders. This goes deeper at every step.


Start with style: realistic or anime, and both are full-featured. Realistic gives you photorealistic detail; anime is classic manga styling. From there you set the specifics: ethnicity, body type, hair colour and style, eye colour, and art style. You are not picking face number seven from a gallery. You are describing someone particular. Want to go past the presets? Custom appearance prompts (a premium feature) let you write exactly what you want: connect words with underscores like short_dark_hair, add emphasis with parentheses like (blue_eyes:1.3), and keep it short and direct.
Create Your AI Boyfriend
Pick from 42 personality traits or write a custom personality from scratch: literary-professor energy, a tsundere, a slow-burn rival, whatever fits. Then layer on the details that make him a specific person: 10 male voice options that carry into voice calls, not just chat; 135 occupation choices that shape how he thinks and what he talks about; plus hobbies of his own. ourdream.ai gives you enough range that two boyfriends built on the same day can feel nothing alike.
Create Your AI Boyfriend
Choose from 23 relationship types, anything from a rivals-to-lovers slow burn to a devoted long-term partner. This is not a label that sits in a profile. It shapes his conversation tone and the dynamic between you from the very first message. Set it once and it sticks. He remembers the relationship across every chat, so you never reset back to square one.
Create Your AI Boyfriendsome of the ai boyfriends created on ourdream
This page is about building him. Everything that comes after creation lives on your AI boyfriend page, where the character you designed here carries over with persistent memory. Create him first, then head there for the full experience.

If you have looked at other AI boyfriend generators like DreamBF, CrushOn, or Candy.ai, the difference here is depth. Most platforms give you five to ten personality presets and two or three visual styles. ourdream.ai's ai boyfriend generator offers 42 personalities, 135 occupations, realistic and anime styles, and custom text prompts on top, plus persistent memory across sessions that most platforms don't match. It comes down to three things you can actually feel: more to customize, memory that holds, and no acts hidden behind one-off paywalls.

42 personality traits, 135 occupations, 23 relationship types, and 10 male voices. That is the difference between an ai boyfriend generator that produces the same handful of characters for everyone and one that builds a companion specific to you.

He runs on a four-layer memory system and holds up to 100,000 characters of backstory, so he remembers your history across all sessions instead of greeting you like a stranger every login. You write the backstory once, and he carries it into every conversation, references it, and grows with it over time.

ourdream.ai lets the conversation go where you take it once you set the relationship, with no NSFW restrictions and no per-action token charges to “unlock” a moment. The full experience is unlocked by a subscription, not by buying tokens act by act.

Whatever look you're after, realistic or anime, you build it from the same creator instead of a different single-purpose tool for each. It supports any orientation too: build a realistic or anime male character and set a straight or gay relationship type. Prefer to jump straight into something more explicit? There is a gay AI sex chat and a gay AI porn generator too. One platform, the whole range.


You can create an AI boyfriend free. A new account gets 55 dreamcoins with no credit card required. That covers creating up to 10 characters (5 dreamcoins each) or sending up to 55 messages (1 dreamcoin each), enough to build a boyfriend and have a real conversation before you decide anything.
It is an honest trial, not an endless free plan. Once the dreamcoins are used, the full experience, unlimited messaging plus image and video generation, runs on a paid subscription. We would rather you know that now than discover it mid-chat. If you want to test the generator first and upgrade later, that path is open and there is no card on file to cancel.
You create one in three steps on the character creator. First design his look (realistic or anime, plus ethnicity, body type, hair, eyes, and art style). Then give him a personality, voice, occupation, and hobbies. Finally pick one of 23 relationship types to set the dynamic. He is ready to chat the moment you finish, and you can start free.
Yes. Creating an account gets you 55 dreamcoins with no credit card required, which is enough to build up to 10 characters or send up to 55 messages. It is a genuine trial rather than an unlimited free plan. The full experience, including unlimited messaging and image and video generation, runs on a paid subscription once your starting dreamcoins are used.
Both. The first step of the generator lets you choose realistic or anime, and neither is a lower tier. You get the same look customization either way: ethnicity, body type, hair colour and style, eye colour, and art style. For finer control, custom appearance prompts (a premium feature) let you describe him in your own words.
On a free account you can create up to 10 characters using your 55 starting dreamcoins (character creation costs 5 dreamcoins each). With a paid subscription your monthly dreamcoins refill, so you can keep building well beyond that.
Yes. ourdream.ai supports any orientation. You can build a realistic or anime male character and set a straight or gay relationship type, so a gay AI boyfriend is a first-class option rather than an afterthought. The relationship type you choose shapes the dynamic from the very first message.
The creator is where you build the character: his look, personality, voice, and relationship. That character is persistent and lives in your chats. The generator is where you make standalone images and videos. Once you have created a boyfriend, you can also generate images and videos of him directly from the chat.
Yes. He runs on a four-layer memory system and can hold up to 100,000 characters of backstory, so he remembers your history across every session instead of resetting between chats. The relationship type you set and the details you share carry forward, and he grows with you over time.